So, there was a jerk (I didnt say that, he did) went to a cafe to meet his girl-friend who just broke up. He said “Tonight I’ll have a diner with her. Well, she just want to talk”. I didn’t have a problem about that–at all. He told me, at least. His girl-friend didn’t ask for my permission (to have a dinner only two of them) because…who am I? And we’re not that close. They’ve known each other before I met him. But after that, they met more frequent plus he didn’t tell me again. I was sad back than lol. It was okay if they end up “just friends” yet I saw (yes, imho) they’re more just friends–back then.
After we broke up once I thought “Did he tell me to get me jealous?” or he really meant it? I don’t know.
Now when I think about that again, I was grateful. Again, he told me at least although that girl didn’t. He let me know that he is going out with another girl.
So, dear my girl-friends, if you are vulnerable and want to talk to someone who already has a partner, it’s better to “ask” his girlfriend first (especially if you’ve known his girlfirend!). Why? Because not all guys will tell his partner about what he does everyday. But if you don’t want to say anything to his grilfriend, make sure he tells his partner. And for my dear boy-friends, if you’re not a jerk, please do tell if you meet another girl.
In a conclusion, don’t put yourself in a mess.
Being rejected and neglected for the multiple times